With all of the bullying in society today I have touched on bullying in the workplace and now want to touch on teacher bullying. Kids are not just bullied by their classmates, I have seen many teachers bully students and it is wrong. These young people need their teachers to care about them, to nurture them. They do not need the teacher to also be a bully. I wrote this article several years ago and wanted to share it here on my blog.
As Bobby walks down
the hall, the other kids taunt him and tease him. They call him names and make
fun of him for how he looks. Sadly, though, the torment does not end there. He
is constantly bullied when he enters the classroom too, but not by the other
students, this time his tormentor is his teacher. The one person at school who
is supposed to prevent bullying, is tormenting students.
Teachers
may not be aware that the way they sometimes treat students is bullying, but it
is as tormenting to kids as being bullied by other students is.
Bulling
is defined as repeated acts over time
attempting to create or enforce one group or persons power over another. Some
teachers do this very thing to students on a daily basis, and may not even be
aware that what they are doing is bullying and can be very damaging to some
kids.
When
a student is late to class, many teachers have the other students taunt and
tease him as he enters the classroom. The teacher will stand in front of the
classroom saying "oh everyone, look it’s Johnny, he's late. Say hi to
Johnny." The kids will laugh and tease him. Some kids may not be bothered
by this, but there are kids who feel very intimidate when treated this way.
Sometimes they become very anxious about going to class and may even be late
because they are so anxious. There are also children who may reach a point
where they have panic attacks and are unable to attend the class at all. The
teacher may think that this approach is going to stop the tardiness, but it is
only bullying to some students who feel inferior already. The teacher should
point out that Johnny is late to him by having him stay after class. It is not
the other students business and the teacher should not use them as a
disciplinary tool.
Teachers
tend to think that embarrassing students will make them do better in class. If
a kid does poorly on a test, many times the teacher will tell the class that
everyone did great on the test except for Johnny. The teacher will embarrass
Johnny not really knowing whether or not Johnny tried his best. This makes him
feel stupid and many times he will never try again. He will just shut down and
feel inferior to the other students.
There
are students whose parents are very involved in their education. They talk to
the teachers and try to stay informed. Some teachers do not like to be bothered
by parents. They use this against kids and tell them that their mom called in
front of the other students, they say this because it annoys them that the
parent is involved. Or the teachers spout off personal issues about the student
in front of the other students. Some kids do not handle this well and it is a
form of bullying to them. Teachers do need to remember that all information
about each kid is confidential and they should not use it to discipline. It is
not discipline, it is bullying.
Some
teachers make it a point to embarrass students every chance they get. They
never stop to think that these are just kids and maybe they are feeling
insecure and scared. The might just need one person to be nice to them, to
actually care. There may come a day that of the kids who is being bullied by
the teacher might have thoughts of suicide because he is also mistreated by
other students. If the teacher bullies him, then he just might go over the edge
and end his life. Teachers do need to discipline students but not to the point,
it becomes bullying.
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